“I am over it! I’m so tired of helping everyone solve their problems and picking up the slack for them!” My client was pissed and I knew exactly how he felt.

That’s what people pleasers do. We solve other people problems and pick up the slack for them.

That’s why we get so exhausted.

That’s why we’re so burned out.

I’ve learned that people pleasing is a symptom of a deeper issue. There is something in all of us that “causes” people pleasing.

While it’s important that I help my client learn how to set boundaries in her work and personal relationships so that she can end the cycle of exhaustion, if we don’t address what’s causing her people pleasing habits, we’re just putting a bandaid on a broken leg.

So, what do we do?

How do we get to the cause instead of just dealing with the symptom?

This is where 1:1 coaching is so powerful!

The cause of your people pleasing habits is unique to you. There’s probably more than one.

It’s hard to get to the cause of something by ourselves because we’re so distracted by the symptom.

And rightly so. Just because it’s a symptom doesn’t mean it’s not a huge deal!

But dealing with symptoms only gets us so far.

That’s why I take my clients on an inner journey that identifies cause so we can create lasting transformation.

Sure, I also give client’s practical tools to handle those symptoms.

Healing the cause is where true liberation lies!

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