How to Own Your Brilliance?

Do You Own Your Brilliance?

It might seem like an odd question to ask, and it’s likely that no one has ever asked you that before. So… think about it. Are you using your gifts, intelligence, skills and genius on your terms? That’s what owning your brilliance looks like and if we don’t own it, we get into stressful situations where others are wanting to be in control of our brilliance!

In today’s episode of Liberate Your People Pleaser I’m going to dig deep and answer some  very important questions regarding today’s topic:

- How to own your brilliance and express it in a unique way ?

- How do People-Pleasers minimize their success & accomplishments ?

And much more.. Listen to today’s episode HERE

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You Are Brilliant! Here’s why…

You are a unique human being. There is no one like you. There never was and never will be again. 

Every skill, talent and gift you have needs to be expressed. Otherwise, the world will miss out on it. Because NO ONE will ever do it -  or be it - exactly the way you will. 

That’s what I call your Brilliance. It’s that magical combination that makes you, you. 

I want all of us to own our brilliance. It took me a long time to do it.

I thought I was being arrogant if I said I was good at stuff. “Pride cometh before a fall” is a message I heard all my life. 

I’m over it. That was a lie. It’s not arrogant to know and say what you’re good at! 

So, I want to hear what you’re really good at. It might be a skill or talent, like you’re a great cook or singer, you play the banjo or can train dogs. Make a list of the things you’re good at! 

I also want to hear about who you are that is part of your brilliance. Are you empathetic, thoughtful, easily grateful, an optimist, encourager, loving, helpful, or something else that is lovely! Those things are as important as the tangible skills, talents and gifts we have. Make a list of the lovely qualities of who you are too! 

The world desperately needs for all of us to Own Our Brilliance!

My People Pleaser Super-Power

Being a People Please has it’s gifts! I call them Super-Powers! 

What is yours?

I’ll share one of mine with you. 

I see what’s going on below the surface. Whether it’s a problem at work, in a relationship, with kids, relatives, body image, self-criticism, money, you name it, there is something going on below the level of what seems to be going on. 

Clients will come to me with a problem they want to solve. For instance, I had a client who was sick of her job. Her boss was abusive and she wasn’t being valued. That’s a problem. 

As we dive in, what I notice is that there is a common thread in the stories I’m hearing. And then... I get an intuitive hit. I see that what’s really going on is that she is angry at her spouse, who consistently dismisses her ideas and opinions. And… she doesn’t talk to him about it. 

I bring it up, even though it may not even seem relevant to the current problems she is having at work. “It seems like your spouse is very dismissive and that you’re pretty angry about that, even though you’ve not discussed it with him. Tell me where I’m wrong?” 

Almost always, like freakishly often, I get, “You’re totally right! But what does that have to do with my issues at work?” 

And then we get to the real work. 

Inevitably, when we address what is below the surface, the “problem” either resolves itself or a clear solution arises. 

It’s so much more effective than dealing with the surface issue. This client might have changed jobs five times all the while, she’s mad at her hubby for dismissing her and she’s not addressing her anger. 

I spent so many years trying to anticipate what others in my family would need, before they even knew it, or asked for it, that I developed incredible powers of intuition. That’s why it’s my People Pleaser Super-Power. 

What’s your People Pleaser Super-Power? 

I hope you’ll join me for Own Your Brilliance! It’s a workshop I created to discover your Super-Powers and uncover some of the other aspects of People Pleasing that aren't serving you so well. 

It’s going to be great fun and you’ll get powerful tools to increase your confidence and feel empowered. 

Grab your cape and join us! Get the deets HERE and register today! Registration closes tonight, so there’s no time to wait. 

You Are A Unique Genius!

Have you ever felt it? 

When you were... so… YOU… 

You have a moment or have an experience where you feel totally authentic and in the flow. 

It’s liberating. 

It’s exhilarating. 

That’s your unique genius!

I want you to be able to create that experience more often. I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve to help you. 

I’m excited to open the virtual doors to a new workshop I’m offering, Own Your Brilliance!

This is the first offer I’ve had in over a year. I had to cultivate my own unique genius. You see, I don’t coach others to do things I don’t do. So after a lot of deep inner work of my own, I am delighted to offer this two-evening, virtual workshop. 

I’m going to teach my ‘Freedom Unleashed’ process. It’s a four-step process that I created for myself, I’ve used it with clients and now I’m offering it to you. It’s powerful. It works. And isn’t that what matters? 

I hope you check out all the details and join me September 2 and 9, for this opportunity to gather with like-minded people and purposely cultivate your unique genius… to learn how to Own Your Brilliance! 

Get all the deets HERE and sign up. I made it super affordable, so grab your own spot and invite a friend. Registration is limited so do it today. If you’re unsure or have a question, please reach out to me personally and ask, brenda@brendaflorida.com.