Do you have anything in your life, right now, that is bugging the hell out of you?
It might be a job that drives you nuts or sucks you dry.
Or a relationship where you don’t feel seen or heard and you feel like you want to scream half the time!
It could be your finances, you hate where you live, your car broke down…again… or any number of other things you want to be different.
If I could wave a magic wand and those things would begin to transform into something new… would you like that?
You’ve come to the right place.
We were talking about a few of the things in my life that are bugging the hell out of me. I am totally, 100% aware that I am resisting them. And I know better. As someone famous said, “What you resist, persists.”
But, knowing you’re resisting and being able to stop it, are two different things.
Yes, I help clients get out of their own resistance all the time. That doesn’t mean I don’t need a little help getting out of mine. We don’t let surgeons operate on themselves for a reason.
At any rate, as I was lamenting my awareness that I was resisting, but also how stuck I was in it, she gave me this perfect metaphor and it changed everything. Instantly.
A sick baby.
She asked me, if I had a sick baby, would I still love it?
Of course I would! I have four kids, this is a metaphor I can totally relate to. If you don’t relate to it, that’s cool, substitute a pet of some sort, or a plant. If you love something or someone and they get sick, you still love them. Your love doesn’t diminish because they are a total pain in the neck!
Let’s face it, sick babies, pets, even plants, can be a pain in the neck. There’s the constant caring for them, which means you probably aren’t getting the rest you need. There are the Dr./Vet/Botanist visits that cost money, take time and aren’t always that helpful. Need I go on?
And, it never changes your love for him/her/it. In fact, sometimes your love deepens.
What if we applied that to ourselves?
Forget the irritating boss, co-worker, spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, your finances, your credit score, where you live, etc.
Look at you. Everything about you and your life at the moment. And just like you would do with that sick baby, love it. Love everything about it. Just love it.
When we are in love, pure love, we know that somehow, things will be okay. We’ll get through it. A solution will show itself.
Do we try to change it? Sure.
We don’t look at a sick baby and say, “you’re going to be a sick baby the rest of your life.”
We look for medicine, we look for people who have healed from the disease and see what we can learn, we do research, we try different things. We never give up.
And, we never stop loving the baby. Whether all the things we try work or not.
Today, I encourage you to do what I did.
Love the fucking sick baby!! Love the hell out of her.
Love is always the best way to find a solution or notice a synchronicity or get some inspired action.
Love is the opposite of resistance. You can’t resist the baby and love the baby, so without even trying, your resistance will drop away, because of the power of your love.
I’d be honored to help you figure out how to love your sick baby and move towards whatever the path to healing is.
I’ve got a few spots open for one-on-one clients. Let’s explore if it’s right for you. Book a free 15-minute Discovery Call and we’ll figure it out and go from there.
You might also like my 100 Days of Living Orgasmically video series. Yes, I’m using orgasm as a metaphor, and it’s an amazing one. Check out the entire playlist here. You can’t live orgasmically if you’re not loving your sick baby. This I know for sure.